101 Questions To Ask Before You Get Engaged

101 Questions to Ask Before You Get Engaged

by H. Norman Wright

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Getting engaged is a big decision. It's a commitment to spend the rest of your life with someone, and it's important to make sure you're both on the same page about the future. That's why it's so important to ask each other plenty of questions before you take the plunge.

Here are 101 questions to ask your partner before you get engaged:

1. The Basics

1. What are your long-term goals? (Career, family, travel, etc.)
2. What are your financial goals? (Buying a house, saving for retirement, etc.)
3. What are your religious beliefs? (If applicable)
4. What are your political beliefs? (If applicable)
5. What are your family values? (If applicable)

2. Your Relationship

6. How do you feel about our relationship? (What are the strengths and weaknesses?)
7. What do you think makes our relationship special?
8. What do you think are the biggest challenges we face as a couple?
9. How do you handle conflict?
10. How do you show love and affection?

3. The Future

11. What do you envision for our future together? (Marriage, children, lifestyle, etc.)
12. How do you see us growing as a couple in the next 5 years?
13. How do you see us growing as a couple in the next 10 years?
14. What are your hopes and dreams for our future family?
15. What are your financial goals for our future family?

4. Finances

16. What are your thoughts on how we should handle our finances? (Joint accounts, separate accounts, etc.)
17. What are your thoughts on debt? (Credit cards, student loans, etc.)
18. What are your thoughts on saving and investing?
19. What are your thoughts on prenuptial agreements?

5. Children

20. Do you want to have children? (If yes, how many?)
21. What are your thoughts on parenting? (Discipline, education, values, etc.)
22. How do you think we would handle the challenges of raising children?

6. Communication

23. How important is communication to you?
24. What are your communication styles? (Talkative, reserved, etc.)
25. How do you feel about expressing your feelings? (Openly, privately, etc.)
26. How do you handle disagreements?

7. Intimacy

27. How important is physical intimacy to you?
28. What are your thoughts on frequency and variety?
29. How do you feel about discussing sexual health and preferences?

8. Lifestyle

30. What are your thoughts on work-life balance?
31. What are your thoughts on household chores and responsibilities?
32. What are your thoughts on spending free time? (Hobbies, social activities, etc.)
33. What are your thoughts on travel?
34. What are your thoughts on entertainment? (Movies, TV, music, etc.)

9. Values

35. What are your core values? (Honesty, integrity, loyalty, etc.)
36. How do your values align with mine?
37. How do you think our values will affect our relationship in the future?

10. Miscellaneous

38. What are your thoughts on pets?
39. What are your thoughts on extended family?
40. What are your thoughts on friends?
41. What are your thoughts on social media?
42. What are your thoughts on technology?
43. What are your thoughts on health and fitness?
44. What are your thoughts on retirement?
45. What are your biggest fears?
46. What are your biggest dreams?
47. Is there anything else you want to ask me?

These are just a few of the questions you should ask your partner before you get engaged. The more you know about each other, the better prepared you'll be for the challenges and joys that come with marriage.

Talking about these things may feel awkward at first, but it's important to have these conversations if you want to build a strong foundation for your relationship. So take your time, ask each other lots of questions, and get to know each other as best as you can.

101 Questions to Ask Before You Get Engaged

by H. Norman Wright

4.6 out of 5

Language	:	English
File size	:	2147 KB
Text-to-Speech	:	Enabled
Screen Reader	:	Supported
Enhanced typesetting	:	Enabled
X-Ray	:	Enabled
Word Wise	:	Enabled
Print length	:	146 pages
Lending	:	Enabled

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